When we examine truth; the essence of intimacy is trust/ and trust is earned, not given; by the things we do create as the purpose established by our lives. Intimacy creates the bond between human lives; as male and female achieve the difference between romance and love. While romance is the blessing of happiness/ love is the blessing of trust in the truth that is your desire shaped by caring; as you share the destiny cultivated by your choices.
Women want intimacy/ but they fail to achieve trust; as is needed to cross the barriers and limits of what I will share with you. Or as marriage taught; “as youth”, Her decision was “not to be like her mother/ female free” (women’s lib). But without a true acceptance of equality (joined as one); there can be no intimacy beyond the barriers that separate our lives. The consequence: “she wanted what she wanted; same as the rest”. But I could not provide that/ as life had already been granted to “world must change”. So we separated/ and then she came back; but I could not go through that again. At least not for many years. Because that is the cost of failed trust.
Men need to establish their world of work and living; before entering into a relationship that has no exit. A reality of decisions, meant to define who I am/ before the addition of who you are with me. Consequent to that is the certainty; male is not ready for commitment; at an early age/ so female at an early age intends to trap with sex; so that male cannot get away without costs. It is a tragic display of failed living; because it eliminates the playground of how we can make each other happy “with romance”/ to exchange that with prison walls. As is the cost of what men do as well; to entrap female, with “things”/ promising wealth.
EVEN SO: in this day, the reality of our lives on earth is: WE CANNOT allow greater population growth/ or we all die; because the earth will die because of us.
That means: the age old trap of female sexuality to govern male behaviors/ is essentially dead. Because it is female who “creates a life”/ not male. Which means although male pays; it is female life on earth; that must decide to end population rise as best they can; by their own choices.
The reality of it: is no you can’t/ and that means instead of fear for the future; both male and female must work to identify what will achieve the peace and happiness of NOT “being thrown away/ so others can be rich”; ending what men do too. But creating a value of work, that is shared by all. With resources spent; to create a future we will all survive.
To achieve this: hate must be separated from the living: so that love may prosper life on earth. Let hate take care of itself/ separate means: never back. Which ultimately means: you MUST be very careful who you isolate as hate. Let the evidence prove what is true/ and then accept truth will decide for life: rather than you.
I would suggest to this world: as with my wife of two years; no kids/ the end result of women’s liberation is: she got to be free. But with it came the cost of living, and the consequences of being alone/ or looking for someone else to be a companion; of value.
The consequence of trying desperately hard “not to cause any more tears”/ was a complete failure; and caused even more tears in both of us. So the lesson of my own marriage is: let only truth decide, even if you don’t want to believe it is true/ and do not forget, that living requires of us according to our choices. So if you were like me; and the only thing that was first “above the rest” was a world that could survive. Then the end result of that is: “unless our paths can meet honestly by our choices to combine in this search for what life must be”; even though love exists for you. The desire for love above all else, puts all life on earth first. The need for friendship, and inclusion in society; must be governed by trust. Because without the proof of trust; we become lost in our quest to identify self; as is the living example of what we do choose for life, and living, and world.
Or in more simple terms: it was not love that drove us apart/ but wants. And all want is built upon the selfishness of belief; that I must come first. It is not so, for a living world/ clearly threatened with extinction. No world/ no love exists here for you or me.
The universities have built; “all manner of weapons and tools to create our end as life on earth”. Consequent to that is: we must remember LIFE NOT WAR, comes first/ and that initiates with WORLD LAW, and international policing we all enforce.
To overrule “the world of men/ whose only real answer to everything is war”/ we must use limited capitalism to remove the individual leadership; by replacing leaders with the law of us all. In that way, enforced by all of us; in a courtroom WE OWN, thereby re-enforcing the law protected by the judiciary we will evict if needed. Our future is our own design. Be it for good/ or for bad as is your choice.
Life should also remember; that in this world so fractured by divorce and the decisions of want; the ability to stay involved with children is not always a decision of men. As life gives to mother; the ultimate choice/ until her children are grown. When we leave as man/ we cannot take that away, and must accept the decision which is “go away”. Always there should remain a potential to go back/ but if fear of falling into love (to participate in, honest happiness): again is rampant. You must let it go. Remembering what we give to life is freedom/ and what we take is, the value of respect. Those things “live in the heart”/ and should never be open to games.
OR, in more explicit terms: ALL THE GAMES between male and female are now dead/ because the one certainty of life is; OVERPOPULATION WILL kill us all/ and war will NOT solve anything. Kill a billion people/ and there are still 8 billion more left. NOT a solution. No water/ no food/ no future; “WAR and cannibalism”: is the price of avoiding our reality.
So the critical decision; apart from the cost of “university is satan on earth”/ will be decided by your own decision. To stop playing games/ to end the constant excuse that is “children will make life happy”; and become a decision: which does let truth decide, “the best we can be”.
Ultimately; I consider that to be a division of this earth; which accepts “distinct groups belong together”. The end of all weapons of mass destruction by peace/ through law. And the cost of: YOU DID IT/ YOU PAY; as will determine the future; which cannot be controlled unless we separate into nations small enough; to let the law decide for us. That WE THE WORLD DO; “make for ourselves”.
It is a major undertaking; which requires some degree of leadership. Which proposes “different can only come from different”/ as is let women try. NOT as leaders; but as writers of the law, we all vote upon as a living world. Instead of a dying world; as is today.
It is a choice; and it will not be free. But neither is extinction; your only other choice. Because no matter what you believe is true; THE EVIDENCE KNOWS; you cannot survive as you are.
LIFE does not allow for an escape from reality; doesn’t matter what you believe/ as is we all die; and then eternity regardless what you believe is true; begins for us all.
So as for me; roughly 21 years ago/ after a ten year search for solutions in men. I found none; being confronted with war is all that is left/ and knowing that is no solution. I turned to eternity “beyond time”; to ask, please don’t let me see this ending/ let me enter eternity now. I was refused, and turned back to “fight longer for life”.
Shortly thereafter; finding and entering into the spiritual world of women: “just to ask a question: WHAT would you do to save this world”. The reality of that decision came to demand: there is no escape for you. “biblical Revelation 12 predicts it”.
But the end result of being joined to “the spiritual world of female”/ no exit exists. This work for life on earth, now exists for you to achieve what men could not do.
Which is end want (the description of animal)/ and begin again with life, as is human; the search for truth/ begins.
THE END RESULT OF IT; I DO NOT KNOW/ which includes the end result of me as well; “not a clue”. But reality says; this is true. LIFE ON EARTH IS GOING TO CHANGE. But the direction of that, is yours. Back to life and world respected. OR the acceleration of your descent will be immediate, and there is no coming back to life; it will be your extinction.
we then come to the extreme definition of humanity; which is “I WON’T BELIEVE”/ want controls life. Therefore truth does not matter to me! As if humanity (our presence as time) was the universe of our existence. It is not.
Rather “truth alone, knows what truth is”/ therefore the purer the heart of our existence as life is, with time. Results in creating the rhythms which will identify the soul (existence, or spirit; without body) of our reality; which has nothing to do with humanity. Only life itself.
The universe is then elevated past the concepts of human existence; by evicting time itself from living/ and expressing that element of our reality, as the composition of soul. Or more distinctly; as the creation of life itself, within us; as is the communication of freedom through thought. The ability to conceive of force, without barriers as are time; examines life as Eternity confronts existence. Questioning, as with the end of time, what is called death. But life our presence as thought, which goes beyond self as truth; is not so easily discarded as a body of time. It is the existence/ decisions; of what we do, to living within us; as creates the reality of being: “our own truth, confronted with desire, shapes us all”. And while truth can be dissipated into “vanished forever”/ the reality of truth that has a value by law, to life itself; will as religion offers, remain forever.
So the question is: if truth rules life (time rules human)/ then life becomes a law within truth.
Or said another way: religion itself, as is called science today/ cannot depart from truth, or it creates within itself, a delusion, which becomes a fantasy, and is then governed by imagination; as is “we can be gods/ and control the sun/ or nature/ or whatever it is they claim to be; as with CERN declaring new elements”. But are not..
because the end result of it all is: “humanity wants, to be called superior to the others.” Shouting or screaming “I know/ I know” as with all gossip. explaining life, with images of themselves.
Or said another way: religion itself, as is called science today/ cannot depart from truth, or it creates within itself, a delusion, which becomes a fantasy, and is then governed by imagination; as is “we can be gods/ and control the sun/ or nature/ or whatever it is they claim to be; as with CERN declaring new elements”. But are not..
because the end result of it all is: “humanity wants, to be called superior to the others.” Shouting or screaming “I know/ I know” as with all gossip.
However as with all religion throughout history; that does not pay the bills of living; so belief is added to remove doubt. And then greed uses the selfishness of belief; to demand “the money” is for ME. Want controls belief, which means “give me back what I want”/ and crusades+, follow, as is WE ARE all the superior ones now.
Or, as is the example of my parents; upon being asked by mom, I explained “not as perfect as you have hoped” so change a little. But pride invaded; and it was the last discussion of life we ever had. Asked to explain dad, I replied “not as perfect as you have hoped”. But pride invaded, and he blamed me for everything beyond that point; severe tinnitus discarded as a lie, forced out by sound became “gossip”. Or the reality of want is “to be superior”/ the common road is, “make someone else inferior”. Or I win. But the end result of it all is: truth aligns only with self. It is not the result of others. Be who you are, and let truth decide for itself.
The foundation of life itself however does not recognize “being human” (not involved). It does however see in life, as love: the destiny called happiness; and that makes “being alive” valued for an eternity.