DATING is simple:
be honest/ be respectful/ be kind/ be generous if you can/ listen and talk honorably (some for you/ some for me); understand men and women both want sex/ but reality knows; it is only for those whom you trust truthfully. Don’t cheat/ don’t make promises you can’t or won’t keep/ don’t lie or claim to be someone you are not. Women honestly look for three things: can you support them or participate in their world/ will you let them have their own say; and NOT try to lead/ are you strong, or brave enough to protect them, if you must.
Young women; want to experiment, and try everything out sexually; which means they fall into traps/ and need to be repaired; because the consequences are nearly always tragic. Young men are not far behind; and fail to grow up UNLESS they literally know their penis is NOT A TOY/ but a tool, that must be exercised with discipline first. IF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER, then sex is a good thing, knowing love lifts the heart to become valued “because of you”. IF YOU LUST FOR EACH OTHER; sex will become a bad thing; simple as that. But bear in mind sex is no game/ and youth is not ready for the truth of it.
WANT drives want, and pride says “I win”/ when in fact, you simply played the game, and what you won has no meaning at all to anyone but you: want tells you what to expect in the future. Life is not a game, and there are no prizes. Pride is always tragic, and reduces everyone else to LOSER; no respect at all. Power judges; and if you find them judging any other life; LOOK OUT, because these are dangerous to you/ and will not hesitate to play god with your life.
Pretty does not mean valuable. Neither does wealth! But we must live the life we choose, and if you cannot: then require what you need to be true. but make no mistake; humanity means, WE ARE responsible to the next generation; and that means “the best we can do; for the next generation”.
Older age requires truth, as in this is what I want/ or desire, from my living. My life/ my choice; can you fit into that reality? Because even though want says yes, reality most of the time says no; because “i want” takes control.
DON’T trap men with pregnancy, (you do have options they don’t) they will rebel; and turn aside without the value they deserve; and find women to be “failures”. Pregnant means: both of us decide/ and if you want the truth; create a contract that proves “someone is going to pay” as is marriage. BOTH must be committed to the cost of a child/ or consequences erupt.
Do BE FRIENDS, and that means DISCARD EVERYTHING, with very few exceptions that media and its entertainment manipulate you with; they are the enemy/ most of the time. As is in media “a gun is always the answer/ and nobody gets really hurt except for those intended to make you fear. Do your best to help each other; as friends always do. Which means discard everything media tells you or shows you or manipulates you to do; and become ALIVE instead.
BELIEF is just pretending want is good/ nothing but what you want matters! NONE OF THAT is true. Because it does matter how much sex you had previous to me. It does matter if you are my friend helping me/ and letting me help you with life and its struggles: caring and sharing what we build, as our lives together. Want is an enemy, just as much as pride and power are. BECAUSE IT IS NOT truth that decides. Always demand truth, and your relationship will last/ but remember this that forgiveness is mandatory, or you will be alone. Choose wisely, and remember repentance means: “as best I can/ this will not happen again”.
The reality is: most people are “good actors”; and can lie without any trouble at all. Demand truth, because only truth survives life. Never sacrifice your life or your love; but always keep the very best for you/ OR give it to GOD, thereby insuring it cannot be taken away. Religion offers sanctuary for those who need it; do not intervene/ it is wrong. DO however be friends, and remember your life has values too/ as is your decision matters too. As is: we all die, and each shall decide what will or will not happen then. For me: TRUTH DECIDES, not me; simple as that.
Accept your own decision matters; tears or not, because it does! No mercy for drama; be true to life, not want. FRIENDS live to be friends/ not slaves, not owned, not bought or paid for: NONE of it.
Let the people who entrap “women in particular”; be killed if their purpose is “sexual slavery”/ 9 billion means: we need you no more.
Rape is war, and its cost is: “you sold your penis for this/ but remember WOMEN LIE” and be certain. What should they keep their weapon? It is unfair.
As we get older; the realities change.
ALWAYS: BE YOURSELF/ KNOW YOURSELF/ UNDERSTAND YOURSELF/ THINK FOR YOURSELF; RESPECT YOURSELF, & FORGIVE YOURSELF WHEN YOU ARE HONEST ENOUGH TO ADMIT “you were wrong”. But never be less than friends with those who are “friends” to you. Take a “calculated risk”/ but don’t be stupid. Walk away from; “humans failing; there is no such thing as cool”/ they are not worth your time. Truth is cool/ and it will prepare you for life and eternity. But make no mistake INVITING SOMEONE to share your life with: MEANS they will be sharing their life with you as well; RESPECT THAT WITH HONESTY, and never let want replace truth; to prove you care.
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