Simple and True

Of things which must be learned; there are two in this particular study of human life. To accomplish dating/ and to understand death.

Dating is the body telling you, that it is time to take an interest in the opposite sex. Thereby “hormones” establish differences, and cry out to participate with life beyond self. The values of kindness, gentleness, hope, love, living with happiness, peace, harmony, respect, heart and soul are all involved in the basic foundations of what dating is suppose to mean.

But they are conflicted with the curse of human disaster that is want, pride, and power which leads to hate, manipulation, claims like “all is fair in love and war” (a complete lie), violence as is rape, lies, cheating, failing, destruction, and more.

You would think that humanity would know which of these two descriptions is best! But they do not; as the constant of human behavior is: I WANT LOVE (to be happy): AND HATE/ to seek revenge on anyone who does me wrong. But love and hate are opposites, and they never travel together for long; because they cannot, unless forced. Hate always judges, and in that judgment the demand to measure rises up; to claim I am the superior one/ you are worthless to me, and therefore I get to do anything I want with you/ since you are worthless, unless you do what I say. Which is where pedophilia begins.

All the tragedy of human behaviors; and the consequences of human media extrapolating every form of violence and hate that is known to create a fear of this could happen to me. Or this is want I want for my revenge/ or whatever it is. MULTIPLIES the cost of human behaviors of hate, far beyond what they could touch without media. Making media a primary component in social descent/ dismemberment as union becomes war instead. Add to that: alas, people believe, and mimic that behavior.

So we ask of life formed, with RESPECT: what can we do?

The answer is: DON’T participate with hate. DO create the opportunities to distribute and choose for all that does have value in life, and learn how best to incorporate love into your life, so that people have the experience to express they have love too.

Yes love can lead to heartbreak; but without love there is only loneliness, and that can be overwhelming to many; causing depression/ overeating or under-eating/ addictions/ and more.

So the cause of heartbreak is: I gave my love to someone else/ who did NOT give it back; and now I too am in poverty of love (to know the grace of miracles built me, life, and living; for values beyond self) inside. We must all protect the very best of love; and never give that away except to GOD our CREATOR. Which is not religious (built upon rules), but truth, a reality of life.

The question is: WHY do people not return love/ when it builds a value between us both that does increase with respect? The answer is: people are greedy (MORE for me), this adding to their lives/ but giving back requires them to spend some of what they received to return that love. They choose to keep it instead as is selfishness (to HELL with you/ I am the important one) come to life and living.

The answer is then: to be careful with your love, it is a finite resource/ given to you by those who did love you; and built upon by your own decisions for love in your own life. Hate devours that to survive/ so it is always preying upon those who love.

But that does not mean to turn away from love; simply instead to be aware, that without true respect, there is no relationship for you to share. Therefore respect, the honesty of life itself/ which has no judgment beyond the law. Remembers respect is a life choice, and it is not a convenience decision as is deceit. All the time, everywhere, with everyone, without fear; beyond hate.

We then turn to the descriptions of dating with love, to realize:

1. there is no occurrence of dress or action, or even nakedness; that allows for rape/ or the disorder of judgment to exist. The order of life requires YOU to accept the disciplines needed to understand: sex is not a game/ and you are not a player, because there is no game; no trophy to be won.

2. It is not your job to judge/ if you love it is your duty to help when you can: without endangering yourself. Beware of deceit, lies, cheating, manipulation, traps; and so on. Because they are everywhere, multiplied by media.

3. You are responsible for what you do, life is not a game/ nor is sex. But neither are they without truth of desire, and it is your job to insure nobody is harmed by what you do. As best we can; is the reality of our lives. But that too depends upon: if you can stay or not/ because once a heart is given, there will be tears if you leave.

4. It is better not to let a heart be broken/ than to accept this one needs me at this moment. In so doing if need is real: YOU MUST accept the decision that is: will they truly benefit? Because parents create judgment/ friends and family create judgment/ people create judgment/ jobs create judgment/ religion creates judgment; OR MORE DISTINCTLY there are a thousand people willing to judge/ rather than accept the value of friendship is here. But make no mistake; once you use sex to fill a need/ it will be expected again and again; as is complications arise, and lives will be changed. No simple thing.

5. EVERY life needs to learn: “you must face the truth” of your own life, and its decisions! You cannot avoid them unless you hide from them, by running away; and that means, you are making mistakes that will harm your future. Unfortunately this is especially true of young mothers who find themselves “without what they need”. There is no going back: consequently, you must learn that sex will not buy you a man to take care of all your financial woes. Parents must help when they can; “it is your job”. You must seek as from the beginning; someone who chooses love; preferably your own age/ your own family distinction/ your own desires and so on. Who will accept your family without judging them. So DON’T have children until marriage is real/ and you are realistically certain “yes WE, can”.

6. Sex is a commitment, not a game! Because the intimacy required of you opens the door to what is inside of you. UNLESS you close that door, and let no one inside; which makes sex a game; that damages the ability of each to participate with another for love; beyond you. Endless complications arise from sex: young girls do not know how to deal with the realities of pregnancy/ or the game they play to chain you with sex, or buy you with pregnancy (can’t leave now). Older women want what they want too, but are more subtle and deceptive. While some remain true to life, rather than self; and learn respect is their own decision too.

7. UNFORTUNATELY; the journey toward a lifetime commitment between male and female can be long and hard. NOT because it has to be; but because people are unkind and unfriendly as media teaches. The competition is massive, as is the intermingling of every culture and type of human subspecies is now involved. Those who are claimed to be more desirable; go from one to the next; gathering trophies. While those less desirable for one reason or another; have trouble finding anyone; because the competition allows it with divorce. Which can be necessary, when life is unfair.

8. The lesson is then; with respect we gain the truth of our relationship/ even if it is not meant to be for a lifetime; it is a value within the heart that will define what joy is. Without respect for love needs truth/ there are only lies, manipulation, games, trophies, toys, hate, and failure of fools. Even so: some whether loving or not/ simply cannot stay, because life calls them to work instead.

   1. There is another lesson: that male is almost NEVER ready to be tied to marriage at a young age/ love you or not; I need to be free to find me first. Then comes all the traps and chains of young women; “you had sex/ NOW I own you”; it is not so. If love was involved/ then we shared the experience, and it is no trap. Women lie; just how it is, and want someone to use as a baby daddy for free; but then learn its expensive and they want to be paid; even though it was their own decision. And they do have choices (in the short term) when life is fair. Tears for women is tears for men too/ changed your world is changed my world too. Men are thrown away too. Want, pride, and power are terrible things; stay away from all you can. Mothers should never be separated from their child/ but not all women who have a child are “honest mothers”. Be careful what you do. Do not make promises/ do not lie, cheat, or steal. Do not use or abuse or entangle yourself in trouble: because love is always open and on display as true. Granting respect, and giving respect to all but hate. Depression is want, that has been lost or given up. Do not want (just me), do not choose pride (I win), do not accept power (I decide for you); find respect, and begin only there. ALL WOMEN deserve honesty, LIFE is not a game. but so do men!  war is never fair/ only truth is fair in love.

      LET IT BE NOTED: that you are the owner of your own body/ and whatever you do with it, the consequences of that are also your own: it is your truth/ no one else is judge; only GOD:   and HE has given it to you “for free”/ to use as you choose. But those who might attack you are also responsible for their decisions; the law of responsible society is the only judge/ even when failure exists. It is fair to have sexual relations (without children paying the price); BEFORE entering into marriage. Because unwelcome surprises can be bad/ and then you are entangled. So with great respect learn what is going to be true, if you are certain; life has earned that right. Sex is not a toy; but it can be “good or bad”. Lust (I use or abuse your body, for chemicals in me) however never is. Learn the difference between longing (I have room for woman) and lust (only abuse or use will be offered or taken). NO RELIGION owns your body/ only you; and your responsibilities to life and world and self; remembering to share is important.

THE CRITICAL understanding of death; is also on display.

What we know is true is: that life in time, is movement of the body. Because once the body no longer moves, it grows cold and disintegrates from time to return as a chemistry of “building parts and pieces”/ not a life.

What is less clear is: that the brain controls the body, and that is its only function; to reveal by experience and expression, what living in time is. LIFE however is an understanding of freedoms and choice, as is the basis for movement in time. Thereby that level of thought, instructs the body to move/ until the body no longer does. Life has left it. Which means life is not of the body/ but of thought instead.

The question then is: WHAT is thought, AND how does it become intermingled in the body of life; so much so, they are inseparable, until the body dies. And HOW does life escape being dead, along with the body of time?

Thought is an elevation of force, more is not necessary for you. It becomes intermingled, because life gives you the chance to judge for yourself what is important to you: the question is “LOVE/ HATE/ or animal”? CHOOSE. Because these decisions create the identity of your life, your existence and your experience to live within the choice you have made; as truth will allow. This is the gateway to eternity; by your own judgment of self. YOU choose/ GOD does not, unless HE grants mercy.

So the question is again: how does life escape death? The answer is: when your body is dying/ YOUR LIFE WILL LEAVE. It is going back to the Creator who gave that life to your body/ and IF YOU DON’T go with it at that second of time: you will not go into eternity as a life. Your choice must be simple and true.

 

And the people say: “thought CANNOT, be all that life is”! But in contrast to that is the understanding; without thought, you are unaware of life. While the body forms the expressions and experience of your choices/ the consequences of other choices; the reality of both experience and expression is: without thought, they cannot be perceived/ don’t exist as a truth. Therefore truth exists within thought, and thought then represents the truth of life itself.

As to the realities of force that are involved with thought; the foundation remains: force gives movement to thought, as it translates the ability to change things; into the laws that become our truth. Into the identity, called self. Into the relationships of respect, that participate as love. Let hope be your guide, into the journey that will not die.